Preston got his wish. That his dad would be able to see the Superbowl one last time. Even though it was from his hospice bed in the living room and we had to wake him up for the game and at halftime and at the end of the game… lol he saw the main parts. He was awake to see that last intense 5 minutes and see Preston obnoxiously cheer for the winning team. Even did some eye rolling and told Preston to calm down in his dad voice. That voice must be instilled in all of us because it can still make Preston listen. I pray he will hear it throughout his life when the option of taking the high road versus the low comes up or doing right versus not such a great choice presents itself. 

Still no eating – going on day 9 (I believe). Our hospice visit today was our weekend nurse who is this older kind gentleman. He does what is called a “Drive By” in their industry, as our week nurse has us so set up for the weekends. It’s still a comfort to know that someone will be checking in on him, even if it’s just to take his vitals. Today, Chris said hi and then dozed back off to sleep. This kind guy just sat and talked with me about my guy and this horrific process that we are living. He took the time to not only educate me in the steps of the end of life but to comfort me in the reassurance that even though it’s harsh to watch, it really is such a peaceful and comfortable way Chris is making his transition. This kind gentleman even had a tear or two along with mine. Such good people at this hospice company. 

Ending on a fun note and memory, a dear friend sent a text message with a picture. It gave us all a good giggle and I wanted to share. Our friend said that she and her husband got such a kick out of Chris “affectionally” using the word Peanut Brittle Head when referring to someone who may not have done or made the best decision. Our friend’s message was: “My husband spent some time on making a head mold for Chris to make him a peanut brittle head. I wanted Chris to see a picture of what he made. We just loved it when he called people peanut brittle head.”

We thought it was a spitting image of Chris!